Adoptees of Color

What to do when your child struggles in school

on December 12, 2012

A great number of people in the United States have already or are about to find out how their child is doing in school for the first time this year. Parent conferences and report cards are coming up if they haven’t already and not everyone is keeping tabs on their child’s progress in school as much as they wished they could. The question remains, what to do when you realize that your son or daughter isn’t doing as well in school as we all wish they did?

First thing and most important, you have to go to the parent conferences. With your child, you will likely get an answer about their studies that tries to put them in the best light possible. Maybe they aren’t putting as much effort into what they should be doing as you or their teachers think. Go have that conversation with the teacher, you will get an unfiltered look at exactly what the problem is.

Now that you know what the problem is, the question is how to solve it. If the problem is a lack of effort on the part of your child in the homework department; sit down and do it with them. People tend to try harder when someone is watching them, plus it will give them a sense of accomplishment when mom or dad sees them overcome an educational obstacle.

One must always consider the prospect of tutoring.  Find a tutor is easier than you think.  It often involves just asking around school but if that isn’t an option, you can always search the internet.  If you’re student is struggling in physics for example, and you live in Philadelphia, simply go to a search engine or craigslist and type in “Philadelphia physics tutors“.

Study plans are also an excellent idea for a struggling child. For example, say your child spends three hours studying a night. They have five subjects and is not doing well in one of them. What I have done in this circumstance is set a distinct amount of time that the child will spend studying each particular subject, according to how good or bad they feel they are doing.

These are just two ways to help fix a very fixable problem. All you really need to do is just help your child and let them know that you know they are trying their absolute hardest.


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